Verbal Bullying In School

Verbal Bullying is a major problem in the modern society today. Whether its calling some one fat, saying there clothes are horrible or just basically taking the mick out of them at all can be very hurtful. People sometimes jokingly say things like this to there friends and this can be OK in some cases but many people take it to heart and get really hurt by this. The hurt of this wont only last a couple of hours like physical bullying as normally this is forgot about after a few days or so where as verbal bullying is psychological and can stay in peoples head for years and some case they can never get over it. Is there any point in bullying really? it just causes more hurt than anything else and in major cases people can be come depressed and suicidal.

Even though the world would be a much better place without bullies it would be weird without the arguments and abuse from people. A lot of people can take insults better than they can take a compliment but a lot of people actually take the insults to heart and it is just horrible for them this can have a life time impact to the rest of there lives. No one can tell how much of an effect Verbal bullying has on the Victim as there is no evidence of it and most people can't pluck up the courage to actually tell any one it is happening where as with physical abuse you don't really have any choice whether to tell anyone as it is noticeable. A lot of people would tell you to ignore bullying but in some ways it is actually not possible as usually there will be more than just one bully and will keep irritating you till you explode and personally i think its not healthy to keep all your emotions building up inside as one day you will just explode and more than likely do something you will regret. Most bullies are cowards themselves and pick on people who are smaller than them and they think they have more weaknesses than them so they don't think they can defend themselves. Most bullies have been bullied in the past themselves and have been pushed in to bullying other people as they think this is natural and some actually don't realise there doing it.

If you are being bullied your self and this has been going on for a while don't be afraid to stand up to this person. Always remember not to lose your cool but don't act all nervous and jumping making the bully think you are scared. Always keep eye contact with the bully make them feel nervous and jumpy and they will realise your not smaller and weaker than them your just as brave and just as confident.


DON'T LET THESE PEOPLE CONTROL YOUR LIFE!!!